3 Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

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Question:

I think my ex boyfriend is in love with me, but I’m not sure. Are there any signs that I should look for from him?

Answer:

That’s a great question. But before you make any moves towards your ex boyfriend, you will need to know the best time to approach him. Signs that your ex boyfriend still really loves you are given off openly and in secret. The questions that follow can assist in working out precisely how much your ex-boyfriend still cares about you, and when he is prepared to get back with you.

3 Signs He Still Loves You

Has your ex boyfriend ever come to a place he knew you might be?

Anytime your ex boyfriend shows up to a place where you just happen to be at is a good sign that he still cares about you. He may say that he’s there with his friends, but in reality he’s really there to keep tabs on you and see what you’re up to. Also, another huge clue that your ex boyfriend is still interested in you is when he comes by your home, school or job. The truth is there is no good reason for him to come to these places (except if he goes to school or works with you) other than to see how you are doing and what you are up to. Any way you slice it, your boyfriend either wants to see what you’re doing or he really misses you.

Seeing your boyfriend at a party or other social gathering however is a different issue  altogether. If both of you share a lot of mutual friends, it may not imply anything. However if your ex boyfriend appears to be close to your friends and still comes around often, then he’s more interested in hanging out with you than with your friends.

Lastly, try not to let it bother you if you’ve come in contact with your boyfriend after the breakup – this happens all the time. The good thing about running into him every so often is that you will eventually create a vacancy in his life. And as time goes on, he’ll start to think about you more often which will cause him to miss you more. This is the time when you need to start making your initial moves to get him back.

How shortly after breaking up did your ex-boyfriend come to take his “stuff”?

Does my ex boyfriend still have feelings for me? A great excuse your ex boyfriend will use to “see” you after the breakup will be when he shows up to get his stuff. This is a good chance for him to talk with you one on one.

Depending on how long it’s been since the breakup, your ex boyfriend may still be angry and emotional towards you. This doesn’t mean he’s not interested in you. He may just be looking to vent his emotions.

Is your ex boyfriend taking a while to collect his stuff? If so, he probably wants things to cool down between you two before seeing you again. Also, it’s possible that as a man, he wanted to see if he could cope without you in his life. This can really be a huge clue that your ex boyfriend is still interested in you. Depending on how the breakup went down, there’s a good chance that when he comes to get his stuff is really the point in his life when he started to miss you the most and needed to see you.

Did you know that there’s an even better indicator that your boyfriend still loves you when it comes to his stuff? It’s when he leaves his stuff with you and doesn’t come back to get it. This means that as a girlfriend and lover, you were more significant to him than anything he ever gave you. What he’s really doing here by not showing up to take his stuff is he’s hoping you’ll call him so he can strike up a conversation with you.

At the end of the day, if your boyfriend calls you looking for his stuff, allow him to have it. You’ve accomplished your goal here by making him call you and not calling him.

How does your ex boyfriend react, when you see him face to face?

The way in which your ex boyfriend reacts when he’s around you, including his body language, the way he dresses and his words will speak volumes about how he still feels about you. Expect that if you’re meeting up with a group of friends that your face to face meeting will be friendly and amicable. Depending on how the relationship ended, your ex boyfriend might want to show you a different side to him and an outing with friends is the perfect cover. And if you find that your ex boyfriend is extremely friendly and outgoing, there’s a good chance he’s looking to make a second impression on you.

There’s something else to look out for during your face to face meeting – do you know what that is? When he cannot look straight into your eyes. If your ex boyfriend is not comfortable around you but still wants to be around you, then don’t expect him to look you in the eye. It could be that he’s still wrestling with his emotions after the breakup and doesn’t know how to proceed or what to do next.

If you’ve been bumping into your ex boyfriend a lot lately, there are 5 simple personal adjustments you can make that will make your ex boyfriend want you back and have him wanting to see you more and more.

These are just 3 of the many signs that your boyfriend still loves you and wants you back. Now that you know what to look for, think back and see if any of these have ever taken place when you’ve crossed paths. If so, maybe you’re closer to getting your ex boyfriend back than you think?